last sat during work.. i suddenly got a call from Yongming.. he said Kenneth might not make it already.... and as i was working and cant go.. my hands kept shaking.. the feeling was exactly the same when grandma passed away 2 years back after receiving all the phone calls...
i know i must go down.. i must not regret if anything really happens to him.. so i manage to find some help..
met up with veron and jiawei picked us up.. the stupid traffic jam caught everyone of us who was rushing down on nerves.. :x

this time.. i dont know.. he looks really miserable with all the tubes and everything on him.. and of all times that i visited, i always kept my tears in the eyes..
but this time i cant no longer hold it anymore.. hide in a corner behind him to cry.. it was damn upsetting lah.. all loss for words..
yongming cried while driving, chester wore a sunglass to hide his sadness.. and most of the girls eyes were red and teary..

:(:(:(:(:(:( i dont know.. i hope for kenneth to recover.. but seeing his condition got worse and worser as days pass.. ...............
its 2 more mths the doctor estimated.. T_T

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Tuesday, April 28, 2009}

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Thursday, April 16, 2009}

visited kenneth at NUH today again...
he has been transferred to ICU.. this time round, he suddenly talk..weakly though.. thanks to Jiawei and Chester for rushing in for us as we were late and visiting hrs is only till 8.30pm.. thought we cant enter already... luckily they were inside first and open the icu door for us from inside...

he recognise us.. and even called our names..
when i asked him, how is he feeling.. he almost cried and choked.. i can feel that he wants to say he's very miserable and sad..
stayed there for just few mins as visiting hrs are over.. told him we'll come again.. and he said, if we're busy dont come... :-(
turned over to look at him as i was leaving the ward and he waved again...
keep controlling my tears till i walked out from the ward.. ... T_T

kenneth, i really hope that we've a time machine now which can allow u to stop the time.. its just 3 more mths the doc says..........
kind of confused..and helpless... its just .. like i really really want to help u.. but i dont know how... i will pray for u.. every night.... i guess thats the only thing i can do for u now.. i hope u will be fine.. pls be strong.. ... T_T T_T T_T

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Thursday, April 16, 2009}

30.03.09 Monday
took a day off today to visit kenneth.. jamie picked me up in the afternoon to go NUH together... he was admitted due to the brain tumors in him got worsened.. its been years since i last saw him....
suddenly my secondary school life seemed so fresh.. so clear to me now.. i believed before this, the school life memories is definitely vague to me..

he was the only chinese boy in our homec's class, so of all boys in the class, he is one of the closest to the girls.. remember he used to crack lame joke.. and his smiles and laughter.. and always laughing at me when i laughed.. always trying to make our homec teacher scold me.. always pull me down with him when he got caught for long nails b4 cooking... lolx..those were the young days..

even after we left school, we actually still kept in contact.. organised chalets annually or on birthdays.. or steamboat dinner at Chester's house.. dinners... accompanying them while they play pool.. all sorts......

but, today when i saw him again.. its nvr gonna be the same again..even if we still have the chance to meet up or organise a gathering together..
he cant talk anymore..cant laugh like how he used to laugh anymore.. he cant even express himself.. all he can only do is to make a eye blink to answer yes or no to our questions...T_T
almost couldnt hold my tears.. but i swallowed it all down bcuz i know im not supposed to cry.. i shouldnt be the one crying infront of him and his parents.. it wont be fair to them...
he winked when his dad ask him if he still remember us.. that second i felt so happy.. happy that he still remember us.. happy that at least he knows that we visited him..
but im sad.. bcuz he couldnt even express himself.. its must be so miserable for him.. :-(

sat there..looked at him and all my school life's memory flashed back....
stayed with him for awhile before we leave.. told him we're leaving first, will come back and visit him again... and his dad asked him to wave goodbye to us.. and.. he waved........
omg.. i really feel like crying out loud at that moment.. at that scenario....

WHAT THE FUCK??!!!! why did God created humans and make them sick and tortured and miserable and in the end fuckingly die?!!!! then whats the point of this whole thingy???
he created humans, and he takes them away... why.......
its not just torturing one human being.. it tortures everyone around him too!!! if u say, he's fated to this, he has done something bad in his past life or whatever shit as what the chinese says, so this life he gonna pay it back...but what abt those people around him? what abt their parents? is this what they deserve too??? fate is such a bull shitting thing!!! that goes for the life that humans have too!
its so unfair! its nvr fair at all....not at all.....
its so cruel.. so vulnerable..
i dont wanna be a human being again..if there's so called - "next life"....T_T

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Wednesday, April 01, 2009}